Tue 20 Apr 2010
The Pattern
Posted by Michael under Uncategorized
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I’ve been doing the Year of Faith for four months now, and there is an obvious pattern emerging. Month one was good. Satanism wasn’t perfect, but it felt good, it felt like I was making head way and I was pretty happy with it. Taoism in February was brutal. Everything felt like it was dragging, writing was forced, my interest waxed and waned. Then everything turned around in March. Baha’i was great, it was easily my most productive and insightful month of the year.
I’m on month four now. Bet you can’t guess how I’m doing. Bet you can’t figure out that I feel burnt out, that I can’t focus, that I every time I try to bring something to the blog or realign myself with this new religion that things are just frickin’ dandy…
I’m choking on Sikhism. It isn’t anything about the religion. It has a rich and interesting history and philosophy. There are plenty of helpful people and many gurdwaras and communities to visit, but I’ve dropped the ball. I’m twenty days into the month and I’m nowhere. In light of this pattern I may have to reevaluate my schedule, or try to make more of an effort to plan ahead. Having a more fixed schedule helps, so maybe I should be looking further into the future before the month is up.
I’ve decided to stop my month of Sikhism. I’m going to take some time to work on other things, and set up the schedule for May.
People always say that in order to succeed you need to get used to failure. I have always assumed that this meant external obstacles- things that I have no control over. What it really means, for me, is to get used to falling short of my own expectations.
It’s okay.
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Keep going!! Me and I’m sure many others are enjoying your experiences. It must be tricky though. Love the way you link Satanism and Baha’i together as the two good months – that made me laugh.
Best wishes
Failure, like, the thing that keeps us from doing the first thing we tried in our lives forever? I think failure is the process of learning what behaviours constitute success for us as a unique individual– as opposed to what you think makes that guy over there hapy, what you guess you’l like in a situation you haven’t experienced yet, or what a fictional character is written to suit in a fictional universe.
We’re complex equipment; it takes a long time to learn to operate us well, and I for one am frequently still swerving around.
Dunno if I’d like you to call it failure though. Cause if you do, I’m a big fucking failure.